25 Sep 2007

sometimes life can be strange..i get to meet a lot of people and see all kinds of pain through experiences of either my own pain or my friends' pain. Sometimes they don't want to say anything.. all they want is to hear comforting words and all they want is for someone to know that they are in pain at that moment.

since the time men and women became civilised beings, many things change and the changes may seem to get worse and worse, people become more and more analytical of everything that happens in their life, from work to fun and i think the worse crime committed love...

shouldn't affairs of the heart be decided with the heart and done so in thinking of the interest of the love interest so that it is responsible and unselfish. mmm... maybe it looks like i am thinking too much, but than something happened today...

Men out there, love the woman that you married, before and after childbirth, love them more than trying to understand them if it frustrates you trying to decipher the female DNA.

Women out there, love yourself,never neglect yourself, especially the stay at home mums, because beyond all the responsibilities of a wife, mother, daughter, sister, friend, there is also a human being who needs a little loving too. Once in a while, take time out of the responsibilities, pamper yourself, don't ever lose yourself, because once you lose yourself, what's left is all your duties and roles. And how could the man of your life still continue loving you when you are not there anymore? Don't lose yourself so the man of your life can't lose you.

I've seen a lot of crappy stuffs happening to people in my life, in terms of marriage, and somehow it still does not deter me from it, though i have absoultely no idea when will my turn come as i don't even have a boyfriend.

I am looking and searching, i am not desperate, when i see someone i feel who may be suitable and i have an interest, i will want to get to know him. However it may not turn out to be the way i want it to be, no big deal about that, its common for everyone to get bumped. I still will go on, maybe its not the right time or the right focus for the other party, but its ok, destiny brought us together, maybe as friends too.

takecare allmy dear friends.