What about the heart?

what is it about love that makes one can't wait to fall into in the beginning and can't wait to get out of at the end?

there can be no two hearts so open, no taste so similar and no feelings so in unison... words of jane austen in persuasion. i guess living in our current information highway times, everything speeds up, falling into and out of love, recovering from it too.

i have this theory about men, they are generally jerks and bastards only varying on the different degrees of it. And yes i know most or maybe all men will be extremely put off by what i say.. but this is me. this is a protective mechanism for me...cos i hope it helps to sieve out the guys who are really sincere from the ones who are in for a good time only.

i think i am past the stage of wanting to just have a short term good time, though i know that one can't really go into any new relationship with any expectation, but i think there will be a little to the slightest degree... isn't having hope some form of expectation?

what makes a man different from the other men and a good man?